Catching up.

Friendship must be the only relationship in life that has no obligations. Really with family and your colleagues you are there for a reason. Whether forced or not. You be (or indeed not be) with friends because you essentially like it. It has to be fun. If it isn't, it makes no sense. That's why, catching up is nonsense, rubbish (love the way the British pronounce this word). If you feel its important to catch up, why did you let go in the first place? More often catching up is a lot of information for gossip. With the current and real friends.